I had a ym conversation with a good friend, Monica who has left the
Our country on the other hand, if you look closer has a really whacked-up society, these are just a few of our divisions:
1. The Economic divisions = Mayaman at Mahirap …. Very few middle class kasi
2. The Race divisions = Mestiza, Chinito, Moreno/Mullato (for the rich brown skinned folk) and Nognog (for the masa) <no offence meant!>
3. The Regional divisions = The manileno, ilocano, kapampangan, bikolano, bisaya, ilonggo, batanggeno, etc. – which is really part of our clannish tribal mentality.
4. The Religious divisions = The Christian majority … which in itself is divided among the Catholics, the Iglesia, Mormons, Born-again, Baptist, Adventist, Anglican, Dating Daan (
5. The familial divisions
6. Oh and on a lighter note, nandyan narin yung Media Divisions = Kapamilya o Kapuso, MTV or Channel V…
So what does all this mean? Well, it just goes to show we have a very rich socio-cultural fabric, but what’s so sad is that this is the main reason we can’t seem to get our act together as a country, because in the first place, ask anyone on the street the question “Ano ka?” They’ll probably answer …. Tao! (if he’s pilosopo), Atenista (malamang if he’s from ateneo),
Rarely will you get an answer saying: “Pilipino ako” <again, kung pilosopo yung tao, sasabihin niya … eh ang labo ng tanong mo eh> but then that’s beside the point.
I grew up as a bystander/observer to these things, going to DLSZ for my elementary and secondary studies, and seeing how the top 5-10% of Pinoys live, while myself coming all the way from a middle/working class neighborhood in Paranaque… with an ultra-conservative and Chinese/Ilocano family upbringing, I was in a unique position to see these cliques and divisions. Sometimes, during my stay in Zobel I felt that there were invisible class lines and exclusions to people like me, who weren’t exactly part of the Ayala Alabang community, but don’t get me wrong, I’m not bitter or anything, because, without going through these experiences, I wouldn’t have been who I am right now, and I wouldn’t have wanted to strike out on my own in UST and go out of my old comfort zone and try to discover what the rest of society is all about. In retrospect, that’s probably why I learned to grow an emotional and social armor around myself and do and like all sorts of off-stream/obscure things (such as learn the clarinet, like American football, learn programming) because I wanted to define myself as better or at least different from the pervading cliques.
When I got to UST, I got the culture shock of my life, especially with my college, which used to be CAFA (College of Architecture and Fine Arts) we had a crazy mix of bohemians, rockers, artistes, and (just simply) weirdos… everyone in Arki had a slight weirdo-on-the-edge kind of feel mainly because we were more constrained and limited by what can be physically done.
"they aren’t as divided in terms of class or economic lines because the United States has a dominant middle class. "
ReplyDeleteI don't agree. America is crazily divided. Just look at the jobs Mexicans have and the jobs White folk have. And then you've got "red states" and "blue states". Also, you've got democrats vs republicans, conservatives vs liberal, right wing left wing, etc. Just because Michael Jordan is black it doesn't mean they don't suffer from disparities like us.
In fact I find it doubly annoying because they're so uptight about being "politically correct". For me that's just another way of saying "Please hide your prejudice. It's impolite." Hypocrisy.
Face it. The whole world is like this. Not just the Philippines. Yet we're not really limited to where we grew up. As long as we're open to broadening our reach as individuals while realizing that we do have a "niche group" to cater to then I guess we're fine. I'm not saying we help people in our niche only. I'm saying our past is a key to where we can be effective as people and will not be a hindrance as long as we're openhearted to broaden our own horizons ;)
Again, easier said than done. People either forget there are others that are different, or forget who they are in their sincerest efforts to bridge the proverbial gap.
=) Well said! Yeah, I kinda forgot about that about the states... tama ka!
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