Workplace romance, Extinction of the Boy/Girl-next-door, Acting my age and counter-culture

I've been searching for topics to post about, but I can't seem to come
up with something coherent/unified. I'll just try to stitch some random
thoughts together:



1. I was walking in Glorietta one day (just as every day) on my
way to my only employee perk... free parking... I decided to stray from
my usual route and browse around one of the bookstores. I saw a very
familiar-looking girl, with a very familiar-looking guy tagging along
with her. And being a visual person, I'm pretty sure I've seen her
(hehe I tend to remember aesthetic landmarks). So anyway, I was trying
to recall where I saw them before, and they saw me glancing, and
immediately they quickly bowed their heads and walked out of the store.




Hmmm... that's odd! This afternoon, while I was lined up at the bank to
do some routine transfers and payments, lo and behold... The girl
happens to be one of the tellers that served me before, and the guy...
the bank manager. Hahahaha No Wonder!
Tapos, tugma pa na I ended up going to her station for my transaction.
She was smiling and whispered good afternoon sir... tapos... she
said... quiet lang po kayo ah!



Sure! no problem!



2. One of the daily problems that plague Manilenos, and virtually every
suburbanite in the world is the daily commute. It fractures your sense
of community with your immediate neighborhood, to the extent that you
may end up knowing more people at school or work than in your own
block. So what does this mean... the boy/girl next door is actually no
longer next door... but in the next suburb. Or heck, the opposite side
of the metro.



3. What is it with people? I've been meeting a couple of new faces and
they usually end up saying that they think I'm around 28-32 years old?!
Maybe its the glasses, my disposition, the barong? Whatever it is, I
think its a good thing that I end up surprising quite a few people when
they find out na may pagka-sira-ulo/kengkoy din pala ako.



4. Now... to another slightly related topic... age and lifestyle. Yes,
at times I don't act my age. Maybe because I'm used to being surrounded
with people older and more serious than me. Or maybe because I've found something to be genuinely happy and passionate about.
Yeah sure I enjoy the beach and going out and hanging out with friends,
but my life doesn't revolve solely around these. Someone asked me, how
come you don't post more fun things on your blog? Well... pardon me, I
can, I have a few crazy things to write about and a few pix showing
several indiscretions to post, pero how would that set me apart
from everyone else? If you go blog-hopping... everyone tries to paint a
picture of their lives as one huge beach party. But seriously? Ganun
nga ba talaga?



I think that a lot of people have been enamored by media, movies and
pop-culture, that if you're not doing something bohemian or artsy, or
being care-free/adventurous, or making crazy love... you're not having
a life. Oo nga naman, you can't sell stories talking about the true
nitty-gritty of life... you know... making ends meet, doing your
laundry, solving problems, raising a family, etc. Its not cool! People
don't want to see their problems on screen.



Call me baduy or corny, I think I'm blessed, because I don't have to go
to great lengths just to say that I'm having a great time. Siguro nga
mababaw ang kaligayahan ko. I'm a meat-and-potatoes, or in a local
context... ulam-and-kanin kind of a guy. And I believe at thats what
matters. And thats what gets things done. An even keel gets you where
you need to go.



Everyone goes gaga over the rebel/bad-boy/artsy/bohemian girl, but if
everyone is trying to be a hip/bohemian/rebel, doesn't that redefine it
as the new status-quo? Then what sets you from everyone else? I'm all
for pluralism and individualism... but you set yourself apart by
emphasizing your core. Not by adopting what everyone else is doing.

Planned Unit Development - Santolan Station, Marikina

This is a Land Development project with a residential and retail components separated, mainly because of the need to sell/develop the retail lots separately. It integrates light urban design (the retail plaza) and a play of heights and layers to create a strong streetscape.

Planned Unit Development - Libis

Ayala Greenfield Estates

The project where I'm assigned =)

Dampen my Enthusiasm...

    One of my major strengths/flaws is the fact that I
expect so much of myself. Although, I've never really let myself down
with my expectations, and during the few times I've done so, I've
managed to use the setback as a means to bounce back. But the problem
begins whenever I start projecting my expectations to others.



    I guess, being a obsessive-compulsive perfectionist
means that I expect more from people. And as much as I would try to
bring my 50% (or whatever fraction/percentage of the whole) onto the
table, the remainder is still brought and controlled by
whoever/whatever parties are involved. And of course, it rarely happens
that the sum of the parts forms 100%. This has been the summary of my
social life (including work relationships, love life, friends, family
life, etc.) thus far. Although I wouldn't claim to be holy because I've
done my share of half-assing my part too, and I have let people down
before. It just sucks to get let down.



    Maybe because I see so much in people. I'd like to
think that its instinctive in me that whenever I see a person, I try to
imagine the best that that person could be. And I try to bring that
out. Not everyone understands that, and a lot of people, would be just
really happy maintaining their status-quo.



    I know that great expectations are the core of
greater possibilities/accomplishments, and greater frustrations.



    I guess I'll have to manage my enthusiasm and
expectations. Change and improve what I can, for the things that I
can't... well si Lord na bahala dun.

DLSZ Survey

Anong batch mo?

Batch 2000.



Sinong principal inabutan mo?

si Lozada Nagbibigay ka ba sa mission collection lagi? kuripot ako eh. Napatawag ka na ba ng principal? haha daming beses na. Sa aling school program ka pinakanatuwa? Sa mga musicals... playing in the orchestra was great. Yes I was and still am a band geek. Ano nilaruan mo sa intrams? Dahil iilan lang kaming semi-athletic sa horrors este honors section... basketball (walang sub) volleyball (kasama girls) chess (na hindi touch move)  tug-of-war... Nakakain ka ba kina Mr. Teo? Sino namang hindi diba? Isa nang institusyon ang tindahan ni Mr. Teo. Naging prayer/Lupang Hinirang/Panatang Makabayan ka ba sa monthly assembly sa auditorium? Hahaha... Keo and Pox: going up the stair to the bleachers... ang init pare dito nalang tayo sa may fan. Ms Boyles: I really wonder what those 2 young men are doing at the bleachers. Keo and Pox: hala! tayo ata yun ah. Yup I can proudly say na I was a boyscout back in dlsz, so we got to do the flag raising gig. May memories ka ba sa gate 3? Naku ang dami. Mas lalo nung dumalas yung pagsabay ko sa second trip ng school bus. I was able to hang-out and play basketball dun sa Narra Park. Gate 3 din ang venue ng aking mga girl frustrations. Eh sa library? The library was my escape from people, problems, etc. I still find solace in books and it has helped nourish my love of knowledge. Nothing beats the countless hours I've spent hanging out and talking with friends, reading about football, about architecture, science, etc. Anong year ka nasama sa top ten? haha... uh... grade 2? hindi... seriously... within the top 40 consistent naman Ano part mo sa production niyo sa Florante at Laura? Lightsman; switchboard master Nung Noli fest? Padre Damaso El Fili fest? Dakilang extra... the magiting na magsasaka and sacristan slavedriver Pinaka-mabait na teacher? Lahat ng magaling magturo... sina Elloso, Marcelo, Llaguno, Simbahan, etc. etc. etc. Pinaka-masamang teacher? Come to think of it, I really didn't mind if the teacher was a pain in the ass, as long as they could teach... ang mahirap kung hindi niya kabisado yung tinuturo niya. Na-clinic ka ba? Oo suki ako. Ano ang pangalan ng school nurse? malay! Nagka-bagsak na grade ka ba? Academics? hindi pa naman... Conduct... hehehe Oo! Anong paborito mong bilhin sa canteen? Mr. Teo's dumplings, kikiam, quail eggs and gulaman, mozzarella sticks, mr. fried rice, chicken lollipop. Anong ginagawa mo tuwing fair or foundation week? Mangbookfair, kumain, manood ng filmshowing sa av, magpractice para sa band concerts, umiwas sa manghuhuli. Tumatambay ka ba sa parking lot ng gate 5? Layo na nun chong. Favorite tambayan? Canteen. Library. Bandroom. Anong parusa sa inyo pag late kayo? Wala. Ano ang ibig sabihin ng SRCC? Student Representative Coordinating Council Sino president nyo nung 4th year kayo? Si Tim Nag-cutting classes ka na ba? Oo naman. Nagyoyosi ka ba dun sa parking sa gate 5? Don't smoke eh. Kumusta naman yung locker mo sa classroom? ah... inadopt na ng Calauit Island sanctuary... May sarili nang habitat ang animals dun eh. May napanalunan ka bang award? haha marami... both humiliating and honoring Anong inumin ang lagi mong binibili? Gulaman from Mr. Teo. Ano sayo? Black Gulaman po. Ano sayo? Gulaman o Iced Tea? Gulaman Po. Ano kulay? uh... Black Gulaman? Sino class officers nyo nung 4th year? President si Tim, Vice si Justine, Secretary si Ley, Treasurer si Charms May codenames ba kayo sa mga teacher, ano yun? dami... pero the best si Conan the Librarian! Sumali ka ba ng slogan making at poster making para lang ma-excuse sa class? naku... suki section ko diyan... bibo eh. Nakapag-print ka ba kahit minsan sa comp lab? Alam ko bawal eh... tsaka dot-matrix printers pa gamit dun noon. Nanalo ba batch nyo sa cheering competition? Grades 6 and 7.Sophomore and Senior highschool din. Nag YFC ka ba? Nope... unlike yung mga iba diyan... habol lang ang girls! hehehe j/k. Although  SFC na ako ngayon Anong theme ng graduation niyo? Uh... cowboys and indians? hehehe wala naman eh. Final grade sa accounting? naku I forget. Wala namang bumabagsak sa accounting diba? Saan kayo dumederetso after ng exams? Bahay ng may bahay =) or sa Town, o uwi na... olats ako eh. Astig ba ang stay mo sa zobel? Hahahaha... High School Angst aside, oo naman. I did learn not just about academics, but about life and people as well. Except that the lessons only start kicking in when you step out into the real world. Natatandaan mo pa ba Alma Mater nyo? Oo naman... God of all nations, merciful Lord of our... ah este... sa UST pala yun... Hail! Hail! Alma Mater... yep... that's better! One word to describe life in zobel? Sheltered!

Healing

To say that the past 2 months were difficult would probably be a very
big understatement. Of course, my problems pale in comparison to
whatever the world's issues are. And, despite the fact that I've been
busy with work and pressed for results, I've tried to stay the course
and soldier on. But no kidding, its tough. I figure, God's probably
trying to knock a message through my thick skull. Heartache,
loneliness, guilt and just plain creeping, disabling pain.  All
of  which I've had to  fight back with solitary prayer, work,
introspection and the help of  some good friends who've I've never
thought would be able to lighten the load, even a little bit.



I'm definitely not out of the woods yet. Although, I can feel that I've
healed a bit. I just got back from a design camp/team building activity
in Lake Caliraya, twas my first time to visit the place, and I have to
say that it truly is proof that man can be a co-creator with God.
Considering that the whole lake was created as a reservoir for Laguna
and Manila way back in the Marcos regime... its a beautifully preserved
setting! I'm just hoping it stays that way and doesn't get too
commercial like Boracay. Not to mention, the lakeshore would provide a
perfect location/site for a vacation house... although, I don't think
the land around it is for sale.



Loved it, recharged the batteries. Brought the old spring in my step.
Meditated a lot, despite the crazy-slightly juvenile raucous caused by
a few of my eager colleagues. I'm getting that wow Philippines vibe
too... hehehe I'm thinking of tapping my domestic trip pass allocation
for some island hopping... maybe around Cebu.



Photos to follow ;)